Monday, August 25, 2008 / 11:51 PM
its only a fine thin line between heckcare & trust....................
A fren came to me crying.. saying that she dun feel the value in her partner... maybe i do understand hw she feel no doubt tons of pple telling her she is just thinking too much...The whole night she has been asking me...
"everyone is worth treasuring & feeling worried that he/she might be win over by other better player.. Agree? no matter what state the r/s is in now.... " was she thinking too much again?
alot of times.. u get to read.. treasure the person b4 u lost them.. how many pple can actually do so? how many of us actually take ur loved one for granted that he/she will nvr leave.. nothing is garantee.. y feel the pain & hurt only after he/she leaves??
y keep he/she if u dun see tat person as someone impt? everyone wishes to be valued.. if ur heart is still unsettled.. its okay to let go.. its of no one fault.. believe me... =)
Fireworks tonight.. =)
Saturday, August 23, 2008 / 6:10 PM
Am going to the Singapore Fireworks Celebrations 2008 show tonight..
Please stop raining... Omi Omi Omi.....
http://www.fireworks.com.sg/
刷牙记
Thursday, August 21, 2008 / 6:03 PM
Opening ceremony for my new tooth brush & toothpaste that i've bought for bushing in office. I've promise myself to start brushing teeth in the afternoon esp aftter the afternoon coffee since the day i had my tooth whitened.. Nvr did i keep my promise till today. I finally went to the toilet to brush teeth. haha.. i'm just so shy doing it thou i've seen many pple brushing teeth.. hmmmm. haha.. anyway, hope i keep it up & do it everyday...
my whitening tooth really stand out from the rest.. making me feel that my teeth are so dirty..even after brushing they still seems yellow!! Suddenly i thought of giving up coffee..maybe my teeth will be whiter? haha...
Times running out........
Tuesday, August 19, 2008 / 5:30 PM
Few months back.. I've this thought of designing our invitation cards.. but suddenly realise I've no time doing that. At times there seems so much things in my mind that I wish to do... Designing wedding cards should be out for now.. guess I don't have the time in doing that le.. hiazs.. Should move on to start designing our website or maybe instead of wedding invites. I should design our emailer. how I wish I am on long leave at home doing all these..
Kind of feeling abit regret not starting on doing some design for the wedding.. :(
unwelcoming feeling for the weekend......
Friday, August 15, 2008 / 6:20 PM
For some unknown reason, i'm dreading the arrival of the weekend... :(
Interesting News Article....
An interesting news.. The article might be abit lengthy.. But worth reading.. I really admire the wife calmness & her way of taking revenge.. A woman scorned certainly knows how to get her revenge....Really a great move.. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Wife auctions evidence of husband's affair on Internet
SYDNEY (AFP) - - An Australian woman has taken revenge on her cheating husband by auctioning his mistress's "huge" panties and his "size small" condom packet on eBay.
ADVERTISEMENT The seller, named only as Anna from Queensland state, says next in line for auction will probably be her husband's Harley Davidson motorcycle "at a start price of 99 cents and, of course, with no reserve!"
A photograph shows the lacy black underpants, described as "size humongous" and the "size small" condom wrapper, which the woman found in her bed after her husband's alleged affair with a woman named Kylie.
Anna says of the panties: "They are so huge I thought they may make someone a nice shawl or, even better, something for Halloween perhaps."
She describes how she returned home early from work after her "soon to be ex-husband" of 22 years mistakenly sent her a romantic text message meant for the other woman, to find him discouraging her from entering their bedroom.
In the room she found the empty condom wrapper under his pillow and "The Tart's panties at the foot of the bed".
The listing was initially taken down by eBay because of its policy of refusing to sell secondhand underwear, spokeswoman Inessa Jackson told Brisbane's Courier Mail.
"We let her know about the policy and instead she's now selling a photograph of the offending knickers," Jackson said.
"eBay does connect colourful buyers with colourful sellers and I wouldn't be surprised if someone did buy these items, though I couldn't speculate on who would buy them or why.
"This is obviously very therapeutic for this woman and it must be a great channel for her views on cheating and the sanctity of marriage."
The photograph, which had a starting price of just 69 US cents, down from the original 99 cents asked for the actual items, had received 47 bids by Thursday, with the top offer standing at 127.50 US dollars with four days to go.
The listing, along with the wife's story, has been added to eBay Australia's Best of eBay site at
http://bestof.ebay.com.au/.
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wife's story frm
http://bestof.ebay.com.au/.
UP FOR AUCTION�ARE
ONE EMPTY ANSELL CONDOM PACKET (SIZE small)�
AND A�PHOTO OF�THE PAIR OF��
'THE TART'S' �BLACK LACEY KNICKERS (SIZE HUMONGOUS)
IT SEEMS�I HAD VIOLATED EBAY'S SECONDHAND CLOTHES POLICY BY OFFERING 'THE TART'S' (HER NAME'S KYLIE i HAVE SINCE FOUND OUT) ACTUAL KNICKERS�UP FOR AUCTION PREVIOUSLY
I CAN ONLY NOW�OFFER A PHOTO OF THE SAID�KNICKERS AND HAVE ADJUSTED THE STARTING PRICE ACCORDINGLY........ PERSONALLY, I DID THINK .99c WAS A BIT AMBITIOUS BUT, AS THEY ARE SO HUGE, I THOUGHT THEY MAY MAKE SOMEONE A NICE SHAWL OR EVEN BETTER, �SOMETHING FOR HALLOWEEN PERHAPS,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
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SO HERE'S THE STORY SO FAR.........
Once upon a time there was a women who, after 22 years of marriage, found�evidence that�the soon to be ex-husband, had had 'The Tart' in their marital bed�this very afternoon.� This low life deceitful son-of-a-person ( I'm all for political correctness) blatently denied that this event�took place�even though the evidence�is irrefutable and is now up for auction on e-bay.
The first tiny warning bells�started ringing�around about�the same time a text message was received by the wife stating 'Where are you darling, I'm waiting'.� As the wife had left the soon to be�ex-husband at home�only a couple of�hours earlier to go to work, she thought it somewhat strange getting a message of that ilk from him.�After a while curiosity got the better of her and with some trepidation, she decided to go home after telling her boss she had an upset stomach, which was no lie.� When she arrived home an hour or so later, everything seemed�normal�but she couldn't shake the feeling that something wasn't quite right.�� His car was parked in the drive-way where she had seen it earlier on and when she got inside, there he was infront of the T.V. watching a DVD as usual.� She explained�she wasn't feeling too well and said she was going�to lie down for a while. His re-action to this was a bit odd to say the least. 'Why don't you lie down here on the couch for a while and I'll get you a cup of tea', he said.�That was her first clue that something really was amiss here. Call�him chauvinistic if you�want and you would be right�because this�low-life had never made her a cup of tea in over 22 years of marriage.... so why�offer now.� Yep, you guessed it, he didn't want her going into the bedroom.... now why was that you may ask.� She concluded later that 'The 'Tart'�must have been�in the process of getting her ass dressed and out of there pronto when�she had unexpectedly arrived home. �Of course she made a bee line for the bedroom then, with soon to be ex-hubby on her heels and apart from an unmistakable aroma of some cheap perfume�resembling nail polish remover�hanging in the air, nothing seemed to be different - except for one thing.� �Oh, you men, you will never understand why we have those, annoying to you though they may be, throw pillows and cushions on a bed and what they mean to us women.� They are aesthetically important to�our decor�and when you see�them piled up on a chair in�a corner of the room, instead of on the bed where you arranged them a few hours ago,�those tiny warning bells you heard earlier were�now starting to�sound like 'Big Ben'.� Walking over to the bed,�she started slowly taking�it apart whilst�the soon to be ex-husband stood in the doorway watching.� Initially, when she first took�the doona cover off, she was sure he just thought she was going to have a lie down but he was oh so very wrong.� After the doona was deposited on the floor, she picked up her pillow, turned it over, checked under where it had been and then threw it on the floor.� Then came his pillow, she picked it up and here was where she found the first of the two items up for auction -�an empty condom packet.� With forefinger and thumb, it was gently lifted�from the bed and dangled in front of�the soon to be ex-husband's nose.� He had, by then, turned a�lovely shade of red and you could see his mind was racing,... 'how the hell am I going to get out of this'.� He then said the only inane thing he could come up with at the time which was, 'What's that?'.�As a couple, they had not used condoms for many years, or at least she hadn't,�but surely that didn't mean he could have forgotten what one looked like!� For some reason, she continued to strip the bed and when the top sheet was�removed the location of the 2nd item up for auction, 'The Tart's' knickers, were discovered at the foot of the bed.�
Explanations were�needed pronto�and would you beleive it, he actually came up with some.� They were all a pack of lies and instead of admitting it, apologizing and starting to grovel, this is what he came up with.� 'I dropped my phone down the toilet, I didn't want to put my hands down there and I could't get it out with the toilet brush so I used�a condom because I couldn't find�any rubber gloves'.� Well, well, well, that was thinking on your feet eh!� She thought she had heard it all now but figured she would see how big a hole he really was�keen to dig for himself so she then asked.�' When was that then and�where did you get the condom from?'.� He replied, 'It happened just after you left for work and I rummaged around and found one in the�pocket of an old jacket in the wardrobe'. 'So how is your phone then, is�it working?' she asked...� 'No, it's stuffed', he replied. 'So how do you explain sending me a text�message a couple of hours after I was at work then'.� 'What message? It wasn't from me, my phone's not working', he replied but�noticed he�had gone a funny shade of green as it began to sink in that he had actually sent the text to her by mistake.�'What about these knickers then, what are they doing in our bed and whose are they', she asked thinking to herself, this will be good.� She wasn't disappointed, as blatant as lies go, it was a classic.� 'Sorry love, I've been meaning to tell you for years but I am a closet transvestite and they are mine'.�
10 out of 10 for trying buddy but your out of here........� systematically his clothes were gathered up and thrown out the front door along with�'The 'Tart's' knickers which, after second thoughts, were scooped up and retrieved.� YES, there really is a God for�it started to rain then.��Not just that fine rain which gets on your damn nerves but bucket loads of�torrential rain which�the soon to be ex-husband found himself standing in�whilst calling the soon to be ex-missus all the names under the sun. He�was gathering�up his wet soggy clothes and�the photo she had thrown at him of them outside the church on their wedding day (she thought that maybe a nice touch) when�he screamed out for his car keys and wallet. Off she went to get them and with no hesitation, handed them over and told�him to get lost in no uncertain terms then watched as he drove away.� Dangling in her hand was the key she had slipped off his keyring, to the soon to be ex-husband's 'Harley Hog', his pride and joy - which�brings me nicely to the next item�that will probably be sold on�Ebay at a start price of.99c and of course, with no�reserve!�
AND THATS THE STORY SO FAR......� HAPPY BIDDING
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a place i yearn to go...............
Longing for hortpark exploration...............I really am longing to go...........
Udates of our LoVe NeSt..
Thursday, August 14, 2008 / 5:13 PM
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Finally got our Tv Console & Dining table from Furniture Club at Sungei Keduk.. so to round up, our hse can be said completely furnished except study room? hmmmm.. maybe shld put it this way. All big furniture have been purchased.. =)
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Curtain guy (Ben) came up to our hse to discus on our curtains. Curtains design & materials all settled. Hopefully whatever we choose will turn out nice.. haha..
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Furniture delivery today. But more then half of the delivery items were screwed up!! 1st were the chairs...During purchasing time, we decided on 2 white & 2 black chairs.. but after some serious thinking, we felt that the white chairs thou look beautiful, will get dirty in no time. SO the more pratical choice is to have all black chairs instead..I went on to make amdendments for the purchase..Fax, counter sign & fax back..thought things done!! & on delivery time, my 2 white chairs came back..*faint!!* haha.. then the guys told us they gg dwn to get tv console up.. they had moved up our dinning tables & chair..but nt tv console.. so off they went.. came up empty handed!! told us there were cracks on the joint of the tv console.. he added that they had specially do a check for us to see if the console was okay b4 moving it up.. well, we dun noe shld we b thankful or angry.. haha.. oki..so they started assembling the dining table.. after table top was tightly screwed in.. we checked the glass top & realise that there were scratches!!
COnclusion, the dining table & chairs are still in our house. They will let us use it & come back with perfect piece for exchange this coming saturday. TV console will cone with it too.. The attitude of the delivery guys are good & the one who do the talking sincerely show that they were sorry.WE did not flare up to them, instead still treat them drinks for the hard work...hahaha..aren't we too nice? luckily i did not have to take leave to wait for them that day... hiazs.. lets hope delivery on this coming saturday will be a smooth & perfect one. =)
oh ya, the guy comented.So sorry that your TV got to be on the floor again. Yes!! i thought I was able to promote it to the table..Poor tv has been on the floor since the day it started serving us... haha...
Determination seems weak today.....
Tuesday, August 12, 2008 / 5:35 PM
Looking out of the window from my seat.. I can feel the strong wind blowing by the big swaying movment of the trees..A heavy down pour day.. My dragging feeling to classes crept in once again.. Its such a good weather to go home, lie comfortably on bed, wrap around by my comforter with my stinky mini pillow beside & watch tv..hao su fu ah!! the thought of it makes me sleepy..haha...
argh!!!! at times, just cant cursing my glutton mouth.. if only, i am s.one who eats & nvr gets fat I'll definitely give a miss to today's lesson.. IF ONLY.........................................
But to make matter worst, my determination seems weak today!! JIALAT!! 2 against one (determination & lazy feeling) vs (dieting thought)..... 2 against 1... 这次惨了!!!
yearning to eat a bowl of tom yum or laksa... *Grrrrrrr.... du zi er!!* haha...
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Follow up entry...i went to my lesson eventually.. Yayyyyyyyyy!! my determination did not gets to zero because of the nice weather. THink the determination to Tone myself win over the laziness!! haha..so proud of myself.!!! but but.. becos the previous night i slpt at 3+am.. i was so stonned during lesson..there was 1 time when i realise my whole body was so tired & lazy to move.. All the others were doing squatting & standing except me..My mind was asking my body to move..but my body just aren't listening..Can u imagine i was forcing myself to start moving? if not, i gues i will have fal aslp standing.. *Ma Lu sia*
i've got back my white tooth........but.................
Monday, August 4, 2008 / 12:00 PM
03/08/08...I've finally got back my white front tooth.. no more the decolorised tooth that makes mi lost my confident when smiling(showing teeth)..no more!!! no more the need to edit my photos when i saw tat decolorised tooth on the photo!! No more..haha.. u just can't imagine how sad i used to be when i realise my tooth getting darker & darker..I used to b so proud of my teeth.. *even being choosen to take part in beautiful set of teeth competition when i was in primary sch..haha..*..oki oki, mine wasn't reali tat wonderful but to me.they are beautiful enuf.. its just so sad after the accident & my tooth is dead..From there on, I'm no longer proud of my teeth..i'l just so afraid to smile to stranger cos tat tooth wil be shown.. hiazs..
so after asking around for gd dentist to do crowning..i finally found one..Went for consultation on sunday night.. Thought its only purely consulataion. Who knows, he told me i shld just try doing whitening 1st, see what's the effect & decided on crowning if i m not happy with it bcos afterall own natural tooth is still more beautiful compared to crowning..
I agreed to the whitening & what stun me nxt is..Dentist told me, okay we shall do everything today..that was already 9pm..CLinic close at 9pm..haha.. anyway,i went on with it.. the whole procedure takes 45-55 mins.. That includes doing a filling for a decay tooth at the back.. haha.. the filling is so painful.. rem my previous post on the painful tooth that all dentist i consulted suspect it was a cracked tooth..yes, i have a cracked tooth..but its not the one tat is causing pain, rather i have 1 decay tooth..tats the killer!! (-.-").. I really don't understand y i'm having so many problems with my teeth.. i brush & floss often.. & go for check up..but teeth seems weaker & weaker..think i ate too much sweets!!! junk food shld be the reason!!
after the procedure, dentist give me a mirror to see what he has done..was so surprise to see my white tooth.wahaha.. the effect is immediate.. my tooth is white nw!! its natural.. so happy with it..there issnt any pain at all.. wahahahahahahahahahaha..Its been real long time since i see the white tooth!! . wo zhen de zhen de hao kai xing ah!!!..
but the hapiness seems short-lived..this morning i was woken up by the pain..the white tooth is having pain..& i realised there are 2 crack lines instead of one (used to have one only..) the 2nd one is so much longer.. its seems like it is going to crack anytime.. i hope its not becos of all the drilling & stuff the dentist did last nite tat cause the 2nd crack line.. hiazs..anyway, i wasnt told tat i wil be experiencing pain... even smiling/laughing/talking seems painful..today i'm extremely quiet..dun feel like talking.. i just pop a sweet..haha.. ironic huh? eating sweet when having toothache..i'm just trying to tolerate..dun wan to pop panadol!! REN!!! keshi zhen de hao tong ah!!! :*(
pls pray hard tis tooth stay white & strong.. i can't take the blow if anything happen to it...!!!